|Posted by Sharing Our Strengths Ministry on October 22, 2010 at 10:49 AM|
Abuse- the Silent Killer---The saddest part of having been abused, you would think is never hearing the person tell you that they are sorry for the hurt and pain they caused you but trust me, it's never being able to tell the story for the sake and happiness of others.
The National Headlines read recently: Tyler Perry Speaks Out About Being Molested and the Aftermath - Oprah.com www.oprah.com
For the first time, media mogul Tyler Perry speaks out about the details of his traumatic childhood, the severe sexual abuse he endured as a little boy and how he triumphed over it all.
My thoughts on this....
People who has never walked in His shoes can not understand the pain and the damage that abuse does. People of no discernment could not see what He was struggling with this whole time nor who had caused Him the most damage...nor will they recognize what is happening right under their own noses to the very people they love and care about!
I for one could write a book on this matter that would be a best seller not just on my own struggles and pain but on the pain that others near and dear to me struggles with every day because of this demon called abuse.
I can but most can not understand the pain and the damage that abuse does unless you have lived in it's ugly web in some form or another. People of no discernment could not see what Tyler was struggling with this whole time nor who had caused Him the most damage...nor will they recognize what is happening right under their own noses to the very people they love and care about!
I for one could write a book on this matter that would be a best seller not just on my own struggles in this area and pain but on the pain that others near and dear to me struggles with every day because of this demon called abuse whether past or present.
There are so many right here connected to us each day on FB and other social networks who look healthy, wealthy in mind and spirit but they are tore up from the floor up from things you wouldn't believe a person could survive. Some had gotten high and mighty in their thinking and pretending that all is well and would be too embarrassed for someone to know that they went through what they survived and is still surviving because it comes back to haunt you from time to time.
Unless you been there you can't imagine less know what Tyler endured and nor will you be able to understand His why now moment!!Why He waited was ideal ...to not cause His Mom more pain because she stayed. Can you even imagine what her life was like.
Abuse cheats you out of so much in life...true happiness, having the marriage of a lifetime, it robs you of your job, peace of mind and for some they can not forget and move forward so they become a prisoner to the hurt and pain. There are many who pretend life is good today and suffer in silent and then there are those who not only suffer but they make everyone around them suffer right along with them each and every day.
You have heard the thought 'Hurting People Hurt People." The saddest part is those hurting have not dealt with their hurts yet they are trying to do jobs or even minister in the midst of their hurt and we wonder why so many end up hurt in churches and on the job. You can't help or deal with someone else issues if you have not faced and done something about your own.
All you end up doing is massing your pain and messing up the lives of their hurting them a you try to go forward and hurting you more because now you blaming them for your pain when they leave the situation because of how you treat them, hold them back, hinder them, abuse them verbally, mentally or even physically.
It is time to face the issues and move from Victim to Victor...I commend Tyler for speaking out...there is generations that are affected by this same spirit and hurt that keeps to uncover it and move into a season of healing and restoration.
I say this again..2010 is the year of Exposure..Tyler will not be the only one exposing other people sins in this area for many walls are built up from this area and more will come down before this year is out ....
Tyler only opened a door for many to walk out of their pain and suffering is all!! And I ask God to bless Him for doing so and May the Lord heal Him completely now that He got it out!!
God is allowing all to be uncovered in this season. He wants us healed, delivered and set free!!
All of us have had our season of abuse by some means but now is a time to come out of it and be renewed, delivered and set free of all that is hindering us from moving forward!!
9 out of 10 times if you asked a group of people what are problems they see others facing ..the thing they shout out or give you is hat they themselves is dealing with. Time to be real with self people of god deal with all issues and move into a position that God can truly bless, heal and minister to you in..now that's for those that truly want deliverance. you can pant on a pretty face and fool other day after day but the lone person you will never fool is the one person that is suffering the most ...YOU!
Confession is good for the soul..it allows the soul (and you) freedom to move about freely as it should and not be bound by hurt or the past.
Father, today let your healing began...may all those that read this and who have found themselves in this place be able to be honest and open with you if with no one else. May you began to minister to their heart, hurts and needs right now ...Father them like never before that they may be over-comers in this area and all others.
May they be healed delivered and set free from all hurt and pain of abuse and misuse in their lives, that the secret hurt and the anger, hurt and animosity of it all lifts and the strong hold it has had over their lives is broken this day during this prayer. Lord, let there be a washing completely that no residue remains..Let the past be the past and today let them move into position to receive your healing, deliverance and freedom from all that hinders, distracts and keeps them from being and doing all that you desire. The blood of Jesus over every home and family represented by the one that is reading this prayer! May they receive all your blessings and believe in their heart that You are Lord.
Heal them right now no matter what the situation nor the length of time past.
Lord for those that find that they have those in their lives that need deliverance in this area but won't seek help..we pray that their faith allows their love ones, friends and all to receive your same measure of grace and mercy just for their asking it of you for them. You are faithful to do just as we ask this day.
I believe by faith that today marriages, families and individual lives are healed and restored. And that they have power and dominion in all areas and will be able to be all you desire after your healing and restoration is restored.
In Jesus Mighty Name, We pray...Amen
" And she shall bring forth a son, and thou shalt call his name JESUS: for he shall save his people from their sins."
Matthew 1:21 (King James Version)